Getting older every day!!
People we see around us, all were born an infant one day. The family provides the infant everything the child needs to grow up. A child doesn’t grow up to become a fully functioning adult in a year. It’s the slowest process in our life.
When we are a child, we have nothing to do. We see many things, but we don’t get to use any of them. Most of us have to be satisfied with Television, the Internet, Mobile Phones, Games, laptops, books, etc. We are limited by birth.
We need to prove ourselves first before, we get to do anything on our own.
Kids born at specific periods become friends as per location, interest, hobby, talent, skills, work, games, thinking, and some other common aspects. Each kid slowly varies from another through his actions, behaviors, thinking, habits, hobby, aim, work, etc.
Once the child grows up doing whatever he likes to do, he/she has to select a specific field as per his/her interest so that they might contribute something to everyone. That’s how our system works.
Being able to understand is an outcome obtained only after years of study. We can’t teach anyone to the point that they understand everything. That’s why we have gaps in our work. We are not the same person anymore. Our profession, personality, knowledge, skills, habits, etc. makes us vary from each other day by day.
As an adult, we need to make our own living. We get to enjoy all the activities which were restricted during childhood. Adulthood is all about our personal decisions. The bigger influence of parents and friends will slowly fade away.
Everything becomes better after growing up. We are allowed to choose what we do with our time. Our choices will create our life.
So is there any problem being a grownup? Nope. But, if we fail to understand and take proper decisions, we have to face the consequences of our wrong actions.
Most of us complain we have problems. How are they created? Why everyone has problems. The problem is created by the person next to us. The person with whom we communicate. Most of the time, problem creators are our parents at the home, friends in schools, colleagues at the office, neighbors at the roads, and so on.
If everyone is focused on their work, everything will be alright. But, we are not able to do so. We are influenced by each other actions, behaviors, work, earning, learning, skills, and so on. This results in confusion and conflicts.
We see the world the way we are. We get the results as per our work.
Things are already complicated. Try to make them simple.
There is a choice:
Either complicate things or simplify them…
I choose to simplify them.
To be Continued…
